Dear Random Person No.4,
Have you ever read a romance novel? Or perhaps a chick romance where the girl falls for the boy who is ever so charming. Boy then turn to a jerk, who's more content to do other things than talk to girl. Girl persists. Boy stays the same. Girl eventually gives up. Boy finally realises that he let a treasure slipped out of his hands. Of course you have. Well, I do hope your life won't be like that.