Monday, October 11, 2010

What I Want in a Guy? I Have No Idea.

Good morning people *smiles widely*

Yes, I know its Monday morning and I'm not sulking under a stormy cloud because its the start of a week. Right now I'm listening to the radio and the topic of the breakfast show is

If you can only choose one quality in a guy, what do you want?

a) Smart
b) Sensitive
c) Charming
d) Confident
e) Funny

I heard women calling in and saying

"I want a guy with a sense of humour,"

"Confident men are the way to go,"

"He has to be smart,"

"I love charming guys,"


And Hanis here is rolling her eyes and pffft-ing at every comment. Cynical Hanis is back. I swear sometimes I feel like I have a personality problem. *thinks about it* Yeap. I'm pfft-ing from experience here.

Smart- I prefer intelligent thank you. For me, smart = book smart and so on. But I know that a smart guy can be damn ignorant. Intelligent is more ... knowledgeable. I know a guy who dropped out of college in his 2nd year and works as a gardener but he's one of the most intelligent guy I've met. He knows the on-goings of the world. He knows more than what's happening in his own country. And he has an opinion on many subjects without being arrogant. What's the use of a guy who might be some "I studied hard for this" job but who's general knowledge is minimal?


Sensitive- I don't have any problem with this. Yet.


Charming- Word of advise, if a guy seems charming and smooth with his words, just think of his experiences in being so. And some charming people are masks wearing individuals. They can be completely different behind you. I would like a slightly shy guy.


Confident- Sometimes confidence can be arrogance. A thin line between them. And sometimes confidence can rub against you the wrong way.


Funny- Well, you just have to have same sense of humour true? Might be suicidal if not.



Do not ask me what I want in a guy. I have no idea anymore. I thought wanted this and it turned out shitty. I thought I wanted that, it backfired on me. All I know is I want an open minded guy. With a taste for travel.


Peace out.

7 comments:

HiddenWriter. said...

Haha, I love this post.
Btw, thanks for checking out my blog!
Oh and I love your 'About Me' section, after checking out some of your posts, I agree, you ARE gorgeous, inside and out :)

HiddenWriter. said...

Me again! Haha, I forgot to add: You 'Letter to cupid' is awesome! and your list of things to do before you die really inspired me to think of writing one of my own. So thanks! :)

Hanis. said...

Haha. Awww, you're obviously smart for agreeing with me ;)

Glad you like those two :D I love writing them(my posts) and that list will be updated from time to time. Oooh, awesome, if you do write one, I'll read it =)

Thanks for the double comments btw xD

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Awww Felicia and lovestolosecontrol, glad you guys like my blog. Of course I'll check out yours :D

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