"I had a classmate, she was big and her crush told her he would date her if she got thinner. She skipped meals and stuff and the end result? He got together with someone else." - Noelle, my bestie.
The lesson here?
If a guy can't like you when you're fat/not pretty enough, he's not worth it.
If a guy don't love you when you're fat/not pretty enough, he won't love you when you're thin. Because love, the real kind is blind.
Self love is what most of us lacked.